Wednesday, January 26, 2011

I am learning to submit

Wives submit to your husband; husbands ought to love their wives-Eph 5:22,28

I have to admit that for a long time in my marriage and while I dated my husband, I thought the word submit was an offensive word. The word, at the time, meant weak, less than, not in control of my life, giving up my dreams. I had a very negative connotation associated with that word. So when I chose to live my life for Christ and start living more biblically, one of the hardest areas for me to deal with was this idea of "submission".

Today, as I am enjoying my marriage more than ever, I have to admit, that it is because I have learned, no, I am learning to submit to my husband. However, the word no longer has the negative connotation that it use to carry with me. Now the word connotates trust, love, encouragement, and being part of the awesomeness that God had intended for marriages.

As old fashion as it sounds,submission is the biblical call for our marriages and it is the key to our marriages happiness and growth. Submission is a beautiful word if you understand that the outcome is more trust, more love, more encouragement, more respect, and more joy. There is so much joy extended to us in our obedience. It is what we are all looking for, as a women, I just want to be loved, really loved. And, as a husband (my husband tell me), they just want us to be submissive, or respected. I often wonder why it took me so long to accept.

I will write more on this topic and what submission looks like in my marriage today why I am always smiling....

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  1. So true "There is so much joy extended to us in our obedience"! I have learned within the last couple of years of how to be more submissive. Dh and I have a much better marriage now and he wants to do things for me. He loves to talk about our marriage (for good). :) Blessings!!


  2. I followed you from Ann’s

    And so funny – this is what my post is on today!

    I just prayed for your marriage (and your submission and his love) to be – all that you want it be, but even more, what God wants it to be. I heart marriage.

    Thank you for this.

    God Bless

  3. Oh how very true! It was not until I submitted to my husband that I became free. I regret the years it took me to learn this life giving lesson, but the joy we have now in our marriage is a God given gift.

  4. Since I am not married yet, I hope I can remember from the first that happiness lies in submision. That is, if I marry.